My sister is an asshole. Why do I hate her you may ask?

Let me first start by saying that she was sexually abused by my father and i think her acting like a hoe-bag is her way of telling me it was MY fault somehow. pff

•  When i try having a conversation she ignores me completely.
• She refers good novels to my mom and brother but not me, even though i show interest.
• She called me greedy on my birthday because i went to open the present before the card
• On thanksgiving i was going for the stuffing (there was a lot left) , but she beat me to it and took 95% of it and only gave me a spoonful. (luckily someone made a fat comment to her)
• She thinks she knows everything about everything…
• She sends me a birthday card about a sister who is always there and cares, but that has NEVER been her
• Shes the type, if you tell a secret, she’ll use it against you.
• She asks people to do things for her all the time, (she’s lazy).. like fuck,., make your own breakfast

I’m sure there’s more, but i somehow feel better now.. thanks !!

So I don’t really understand why, unless she is dwelling on regular sister stuff arguments that we had as teenagers (20+ years ago), but my sister seems to really dislike me.  She has made it painfully clear that she has a very low opinion of me – she actually told me once how surprised she was by how superior her morals were to mine.  But there is such a weird cycle at work – she says things like that, and of course I’m hurt and stunned, and somehow that prevents me from being able to respond.  So I never correct her – when she interprets my words to have the worst possible meaning, when she describes me in a way that just doesn’t fit who I know myself to be, I cannot correct her.  I allow her to continue thinking those things about me.  It pretty much, well, sucks.  Our mother died, and I’ve been trying to rekindle a sisterly relationship with her, but she cannot respond when I say “I love you,” she does not invite me to her important events, she says mean things about me to her children (whom I adore, and it really hurts when I hear them repeat her judgments of me).  I kind of want to give up, but I also really don’t want this person walking around with such an inaccurate and negative view of who I am.  How do I get her to know the real me – as opposed to the 16 year old me that she seems to think I still am?  I’m 38 years old, she’s 40, and I certainly don’t presume that she is the same person she was back in high school (the last time we lived together), why can’t she give me the same benefit of the doubt?  I wasn’t a monster in high school, I was just a teenager, and sometimes teenagers are remarkably insensitive.  So it’s just my assumption that that is when this started.

Ok, I hate my sister for the following reasons

1. She thinks she owns everything that I have and she borrows then to other people without my permssion.

2. Because of my hearing problem, she treats me like a idiot in front of people by whispering her words so I can’t hear her. Then says to the people she was with that I never listen to her.

3. She messes up her side of the room so much that one point I trip over her stuff and I bang my head on the CD player.

4. When she run out of room to make a mess on, she puts her stuff on my bed.

5. We go half on shopping but the problem is, I give her a SMALL list of stuff that I need (she doesn’t do list) and she never gets any of my stuff, just gets hers stuff and charges me for it.

6. She makes too much food and she gives it to her friends, but there never enough for me despite I paid for half of the food.

Hi, I’m new to this site but I’m glad, SO glad I found it!  My sisters are killing me day by day…  both physically and mentally, they are the most “infallible” ‘THINGS’ on this planet (according to my parents)…  she has the WORST attitude, yet according to my parents, They are:

-Angels

-Those who can do no harm.

Also I can “learn a few things” from them… PUH-LEASE!

Okay, I’m done… but this post is just me putting it lightly…

There are no words that can describe them to the fullest extent…

There are only two of them, but that’s TWO TOO MANY…

HEY!,  

          Something happened yesterday that really pissed me off!  My little sister kendall ( 7 ) hit me! and my mom said that if either one of us hit each other than that person gets grounded for a week and their t.v taken out of thier room for a week!  GUESS WHAT??!! she hit me and my mom was serious and said that the t.v was being taken away and then when she was getting ready to tell wes to take the t.v out of her room she says that she is not gonna!!! AND THAT REALY REALY PISSED ME OFF BECUZ SHE WOULD NEVER HESITATE TO TAKE IT OUT OF MY ROOM BUT IT IS OK TO NOT DO IT WHEN IT COMES TO HER!!   SO FREAKIN PISSED!! CAN SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE?

My sister sucks!she lies and cheats and takes advantage of people,and i hate her!

my sister is a toddler and i cant stand her man!!! sometimes she even gets me into trouble when i didnt do anything obviously!!! ugh my god is she manipulative and she has my mother wrapped around her finger and takes my stuff but what are ya gonna do?! i know that she is still a baby and all but i mean come on have some boundaries or at least learn them

Here Are Some Reasons Why My Sister Is A Jerk!

-She Does That Stupid Hand Thing, Trying To Act Like She Can’t  Here Me

-She Try’s To Act Like She’s Smarter Then Everyone Else(When She’s Not!)

-She Purposely Talks On Her Cell As Loud As Posible So I Cant Sleep

-She Gets Away With Mostly Everything

-She Always Acts There Is Something Wrong So She Can Get Attention

hmm. lets seeee. why my sister suckks.
i think we’d be better off trying to find reasons why she doesnt suck.
but since theres none of those ill just start:
so its the night before halloween and i have sweet plans for tomorrow, my sister just raided my room and found shit in it, pshh of course she had to tell my parents because being 18 you just have to tattle all the time, even though shes just sooo “mature.” who the fuck dresses and acts like they have 40 years old, but still tattles on there little sister for every step that she makes, but that isn’t even the worst part of it.
She drives on making my life hell. Since no one in my family loves me, i finally found someone who loves me, and i love, but molly

Lord you know i love my sisters Lord. But i always get closer to killing them. Lord i know you know that what i go through is tough. Gettin beatin and gettin a good talkin to. Yet im still here them to. I wish i was wit you Lord.

Lord if i was wit you, you would not have to think about the fact that i might kill’em. I can’t shun’em lord it be to hard. i know you know that i know a little ’bout killin people. Cause of my readin you took faith from my sisters and put it in to me. Yet you aint givin them any to love n trust me Lord…